FRIENDS
So here it is, the long awaited friendship post!
Friendships....where do I even begin? Do I start with the good, the bad or the ugly?
THE GOOD
Right, for the sake of simplicity I think I will talk about each type in order.
The majority of friendships people make tend to be good, they help make us who we are today. I'm going to talk about one friendship in particular.
I know a girl (here is a link to her page) that i honestly don't know where i would be today if i were without her. We have literally grown up together, i can safely say it has been 15 years since we first met. Like every friendship we have had the off up and down, we used to fight like two alley cats then next thing you know, the two of us are friends again. She knows more about me than anyone else, if something is wrong she is always the first to know no matter how big or small it is and i know that she will keep it to herself if i ask her.
This person has a special place in my heart, we were in the same class from juniors all the way up to fifth year and because of her unbelievable amount of loyalty and love she is like the sister i never had. I would do anything to protect her and i know that is a bit of a cliché but i genuinely mean it!
I remember last summer i learned that a certain individual was about to turn her world upside down and i did everything in my power to stop it from happening if not delay the inevitable. I told the person how to go about their actions but they ignored me. I wanted to tell her what was headed her way but i couldn't tell her because it wasn't my place to say and it burned me up knowing that i was having a happy conversation with her while at the same time i was battling person X .
I knew instantly when the impact struck....i pretended for a while that i didn't know what had happened until she was ready to tell me, i was afraid that if she knew that i knew that she would hate me, finally i told her that i had known what it was and that i had tried to stop it from happening and i guess that i didn't need to worry, she completely understood my position and knew that if i could tell her i would have.
Friendships....where do I even begin? Do I start with the good, the bad or the ugly?
THE GOOD
Right, for the sake of simplicity I think I will talk about each type in order.
The majority of friendships people make tend to be good, they help make us who we are today. I'm going to talk about one friendship in particular.
I know a girl (here is a link to her page) that i honestly don't know where i would be today if i were without her. We have literally grown up together, i can safely say it has been 15 years since we first met. Like every friendship we have had the off up and down, we used to fight like two alley cats then next thing you know, the two of us are friends again. She knows more about me than anyone else, if something is wrong she is always the first to know no matter how big or small it is and i know that she will keep it to herself if i ask her.
This person has a special place in my heart, we were in the same class from juniors all the way up to fifth year and because of her unbelievable amount of loyalty and love she is like the sister i never had. I would do anything to protect her and i know that is a bit of a cliché but i genuinely mean it!
I remember last summer i learned that a certain individual was about to turn her world upside down and i did everything in my power to stop it from happening if not delay the inevitable. I told the person how to go about their actions but they ignored me. I wanted to tell her what was headed her way but i couldn't tell her because it wasn't my place to say and it burned me up knowing that i was having a happy conversation with her while at the same time i was battling person X .
I knew instantly when the impact struck....i pretended for a while that i didn't know what had happened until she was ready to tell me, i was afraid that if she knew that i knew that she would hate me, finally i told her that i had known what it was and that i had tried to stop it from happening and i guess that i didn't need to worry, she completely understood my position and knew that if i could tell her i would have.
The Bad And The Ugly
What im going to talk to you about now is a bit of a delicate topic for me as its really only a thing that happened in the past two months. I had a boyfriend and i decided to break up with him on civil terms, anyway to cut a long story short he ran off to one of my close friends and started to turn her against me. This girl was one of my closest friends and even now despite all that has happened between us i still care for her. She hasnt been the same with me since i broke up with my boyfriend and she accused me for being the reason the group is all fighting ad why we aren't talking to each other anymore. This was literally one of the only times that a person has ever properly hurt me. I publicly opened up to her and i poured out everything i felt for her to see how much i miss her, how sorry i am that she ended up getting caught up in the break up and how i miss how we used to be and how i was always there for her and how i defended her and supported her and looked after her. This happened about two weeks ago and she hasnt spoken to me. in a was i suppose this means the end of what was a great friendship but i never for one second gave up on us, and even now i would still drop everything in order to be by her side if anything were to happen to her.
What im going to talk to you about now is a bit of a delicate topic for me as its really only a thing that happened in the past two months. I had a boyfriend and i decided to break up with him on civil terms, anyway to cut a long story short he ran off to one of my close friends and started to turn her against me. This girl was one of my closest friends and even now despite all that has happened between us i still care for her. She hasnt been the same with me since i broke up with my boyfriend and she accused me for being the reason the group is all fighting ad why we aren't talking to each other anymore. This was literally one of the only times that a person has ever properly hurt me. I publicly opened up to her and i poured out everything i felt for her to see how much i miss her, how sorry i am that she ended up getting caught up in the break up and how i miss how we used to be and how i was always there for her and how i defended her and supported her and looked after her. This happened about two weeks ago and she hasnt spoken to me. in a was i suppose this means the end of what was a great friendship but i never for one second gave up on us, and even now i would still drop everything in order to be by her side if anything were to happen to her.
